"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." --Henry David Thoreau


"Service is the rent we pay for being, It is the very purpose of life and not something you do in your spare time."

--Marion Wright Edelman


"The fruit of love is SERVICE. The fruit of service is PEACE" --Mother Teresa

Saturday, May 14, 2011

PC Grenada Survival Kit

I am a person with way to much stuff. I know, confession time. But really, I have always had way to much stuff, junk, nonsense in my life since I was a little kid. I was the kid that collected everything I could find, holding significant emotional meaning in the smallest of items. My room was (and is) a smorgasbord of random, insignificant to anyone but me, "items".

But, when I joined Peace Corps I remember my life suddenly becoming so...simple. It was something I really needed to learn, the ability to part with things that aren't necessary for the daily functioning of life. I fit my entire life into 100 pounds of luggage when moving to Grenada, something that took weeks of thought and rearrangement. Should I bring my favorite childhood toy? Probably not. Can I bring my 15 button up shirts? Not necessary. What about cheez its? Ok, but only ONE box.  Tools? no. Favorite boots? uhhh no. My Car? nope. Blackberry? nooooope. Beer coozie? ugh, no!

My life quickly changed when I moved to Grenada in more ways than one, but one of the most valuable lessons I have taken from this experience is that we really don't need ALL. THAT. STUFF. to survive and live happily. Often times we are trained (especially in America) to believe the more things you have, the happier you can be. The constant overflow of in-your-face commercials about Ipads, cell phones, clothes and gadgets can form this ideology in our lives that more=happy. It takes a serious commitment to living frugally to understand that life really is about being happy through things like service, family, and friends. Are you willing to step back and reevaluate your life in order to declutter the nonsense?

I decided to compile a list of things in Grenada I simply can't live without. This is my "Peace Corps Survival Kit":

#1: FAN! I mean air conditioning. This uses about 50% of my electricity bill and its totally worth it. With days reaching in the 90's and a heat index over 100 some days, this is necessary.
#2: Mosquito net. This is pretty self explanatory. We have a high prevalence of dengue fever here in the rainy season, making this net a priority. My net has been rigged with super glue, plastic hooks, pipe cleaners, hair ties and hair bands to ensure it keeps me tucked in safely.
#3: Facebook. I know, I know. Judge me all you want, but this is my main form of communication with back home. It's my way of keeping in touch with friends and family, which is really important to me. It is also a great way to share my experience with Americans through pictures and random status updates.
#4: Random amount of cords, adaptors and transformers. The electrical frequency is different from the States (220/110), making it really important to have adaptors and transformers. Not only is the frequency different, the shape of the plugs are British style with three prongs. It makes for an interesting attempt at making electronics work and not explode.
#5: Insecticide. There are some interesting critters in the Caribbean, so having BOP around makes me scream less. I have successfully mastered the art of killing spiders (that I am deathly afraid of), cockroaches, ants and centipedes. Although not good for your lungs, this is a must.
#6: Sweat rag. Gross, I know. But this thing saves me from soaking wet dress clothes and nasty greasy hair. Sweating is a constant here whether its sun up or sun down. The humidity makes for a hot sweaty mess, something the locals tease us white people about. I am never far from this rag.
#7: Bug Spray. When not tucked tightly under my mosquito net, I'm bathing in this stuff. Deep Woods is the BEST bug spray that OFF! makes and I suggest it for anyone. Those blood suckers are EVERYWHERE in Grenada.
#7: Flip Flops!!! Oh, and flip flops with a bottle opener on the bottom is suggested. :) No twist off bottles here my little Americans, just good ole fashion tight as hell caps. Though wearing flip flops with dress clothes is a cultural no-no, outside of work I go nowhere without them.
#8: Sunglasses. The Caribbean sun is much much hotter than the Missouri sun, so making sure to protect my eyes is important. And who wouldn't want this cool looking shades? just sayin...
#9: Sunsets. I know the value of life after seeing a Caribbean sunset. They are like no other and can't truly be appreciated through a simple picture. Come visit and see for yourself. :)

#10: AN OPEN MIND!!!!!!


Hope you enjoyed my Top 10 list.

Always serving,
Mack

Monday, May 9, 2011

The Peace Corps Experience

The following story was sent to us by our Country Director Kevin Carley. Mr. Carley points out that "some of us have a tendency to think that some of the challenges of achieving a Peace Corps experience are unique to the Eastern Caribbean.  Or are different today than they were 10 or 20 years ago.  This paper would imply that some of those challenges are more universal and more timeless." I like this story for many reasons, but one reason is that it gives good insight into that although we might be in a third world developing country with many US influences, we still have the opportunity for the "Peace Corps experience" if we have the right mindset. I cannot count the number of times I have heard from people back home that I'm "living on a beach in paradise," "It can't be that bad if you have a beach and sunshine," and "That can't be to hard to live there." Time and time again it becomes frustrating, so I hope this article gives some insight. Enjoy!


THE PEACE CORPS EXPERIENCE – By Craig Storti

“The real strength of your experience here rests on the fact that you must decide what kind of life you want to lead.”  - PCV Mali
While different people join the Peace Corps for different reasons, most Volunteers hope for what we might call the Peace Corps experience.  That is, they seek a profound encounter with a foreign culture, a series of experiences that changes forever the way they think about the world, their own country, and themselves.  They expect-and very much want-to be challenged, to have their patience and their mettle tested, to be pulled, pushed or otherwise forced into new ways of thinking and behaving.  They want, in a word, to grow.  And the Peace Corps itself wouldn’t have it any other way; this is, in fact, a large part of its mission and raison d’etre.

And yet, while most Volunteers want the Peace Corps experience, while the Peace Corps itself encourages and all but mandates this experience, and while this experience is in fact available in every Peace Corps country-some Volunteers have it and a good many do not.

To be sure, there is a handful of countries-like Nepal or Micronesia or Swaziland-where you will have the Peace Corps experience whether you want it or not, countries so different from the United States that you will have a profound encounter with another culture just by virtue of being assigned there.  And there are parts of still other countries-the more remote or more traditional parts-where you are likewise more or less guaranteed the Peace Corps experience just by showing up.  But while it may be easier to have the Peace Corps experience in such places, every Volunteer, regardless of where he or she is posted, is still going to end up in a foreign country.  If you’re not having a profound encounter with another culture, it’s not because you haven’t gone overseas.

The problem, then, is not that the Peace Corps experience isn’t available in your town or city, but that some other competing experiences may be.  In a number of countries, especially in the large cities, there is often a good-sized expatriate community, made up of people from several Western and other developed countries and, often, a number of non-Peace Corps Americans.  In many cases you work may draw you into this expatriate orbit and before long, without knowing it, you’re spending most of your time, on and off the job, in this community.  Even Volunteers who do not come in contact with expatriate on the job often live in cities where there is a large population and spend much of their time socializing with them.  Without impugning the value of such an experience, we can agree that at the very least it does not constitute a profound encounter with the local culture.

Another experience available in many countries, and particularly in those towns and cities where there is a large concentration of Volunteers, is what we might call the Peace Corps lifestyle.  In this alternative experience, you may work with host country people, but you live with other Volunteers, spend weekends with other Volunteers, and go on vacation with other Volunteers.  At the same time, you become more and more absorbed in the personalities and politics of the Peace Corps itself until, suddenly and unaccountably, a new Peace Corps policy or a change in Peace Corps staff reverberates through your circle with more impact than any comparable development in the host culture ever further into the background.

The point here is not that Volunteers who befriend expatriates or spend a lot of time with other PCVs cannot be effective or achieve the goals of the Peace Corps, or even that spending time with Westerners and other Volunteers isn’t often quite therapeutic and necessary.  It is, rather, a question of degree.  If you are spending most of your time with English-speakers and other Westerners, then quite simply you can’t also be spending it with the natives improving your Swahili and learning about the culture.  A balance, as we’ve said, is natural and necessary, but the appeal of these alternate lifestyles is almost irresistible.  Like attracts like; we instinctively tend toward people who understand us and whom we understand, around whom we can relax and not worry about being culturally insensitive, whose words we can understand without straining and to whom we can speak without heroic feats of concentration.  In no time, casual contact becomes a habit.

The danger of these alternative cultures, then, is not that there is anything wrong with them in moderation, but that it is so easy to be immoderate about them.  Without realizing it-without intending to or wanting to-we can be drawn deeper and deeper into them until there is no easy escape.  By the time the average Volunteer realizes he has drifted into the wrong experience, if in fact he ever does, it’s too late.

The solution, then, is to be alert, to watch how you spend your time and with whom you spend it.  Is the money you’re saving by living with another PCV worth the price you’re paying?  And at what cost do you purchase the blessed relief of hearing and speaking English every afternoon at the expatriate compound? Regularly, as marked on your calendar, look at the life you’re leading and make sure it’s the one you signed up for.  And while you ‘re at it, keep your distance from those time-worn rationales which hold that this isn’t a Peace Corps country or mine isn’t a Peace Corps job.  There is no country, Peace Corps or otherwise, that doesn’t have an indigenous culture, nor is there any Peace Corps job that precludes interaction with host country nationals.  Wherever you serve, the Peace Corps experience is there for the asking.  You only have to put the question.


Sunday, May 8, 2011

Sunday Shoutout

Not really feeling like blogging today, but wanted to make sure to wish my Momma a Happy Mothers Day today. She is the greatest support system I have here in Grenada and I couldn't continue this journey without her. Chasing my dreams has been something she inspired me to do from a young age and I will forever be indebted to her for teaching me that lesson.

Love you Momma!

Momma and my second Mom, Aunt Kim

Me, Sister, Momma

Momma and Aunt Lori enjoying Grenada!

Love this lady.

Great mini vaca to Florida.